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The Fragile Heart
I see myself in fragility at times. My fragility presents as anger, attempting to protect my heart from being hurt and my vulnerabilities and insecurities from being seen. I trust less, fight more and am more frazzled, overwhelmed and confused. This is me in parts of my shadow.
What Is Your Goal in Sexual Union?
Purely orgasmic orientated sex keeps us in a vicious and addictive cycle of emptiness and incompleteness that requires “refilling”.
Strive For Greater Equity
The nature of reality shows us that one cannot exist without the other (duality – light and dark/good and evil). We may never “find” or create absolute “peace,” but that doesn’t mean we cannot do our best to strive for greater equity, deeper love, a more profound appreciation for difference and a truer reverence for ourselves and each other.
Sexuality Is a Frequency That Represents YOU
Most sex is just unconscious, mutual masturbation trying to relieve our pain and shame. Conscious sexuality is about the merging of ALL that we are and saying “here I am, take all of me, as I accept all of me and welcome all of you”…
The Healer and The “Sufferer”
In ancient shamanic traditions, the healer and the “sufferer” conjoin together to journey through the trauma where the shaman/healer deeply supports this releasing of terror in a profound and liberating way.
How To Truly Love and Honor Your Beloved
Hold her firmly, like the structure of a solid oak. That oak is unshaken by the wind, as is your integrity and capacity to hold for all of her.
That oak only shaped by the direction of its intention. Imagine your intention carrying the power of a thousand kings – trusted, revered and depended upon to be present.
Healing Trauma Through Sacred Sexual Union
In nurturing lovemaking, sex has the capacity to heal old trauma and wounds. As you witness each other in non-judging and vulnerable ways, the old may resurface to be released viscerally in a safe and supportive way.
Our Journey Towards Healing (Doing The Inner Work)
We all strive for perfection in our own ways. For the masculine, it’s generally through a feeling of emptiness, freedom, and a sense of depth to the world. For the feminine it’s in fullness, feeling whole and connected to all things. It is both our conscious and unconscious expectations of perfection that fuel who we are and who we become. It is our recognition of the worth and intrinsic value of our soul that releases us from the catchment of our rigid or extreme ideas of who we must be in order to be “perfect”…
Be In Existential Curiosity
You are not in an existential crisis, you are in existential curiosity. Be aware of the distinction and transcendence that awaits…
What Is Your Sexual Character?
Do you deny yourself of love? Do you deem yourself worthy of affection?
Are you chasing others in order to elevate your worth? Are you pursuing the elusive and stuck in fantasy?
Do you trust your heart? Can you trust others?