Most sex is just unconscious, mutual masturbation trying to relieve our pain and shame. Conscious sexuality is about the merging of ALL that we are and saying “here I am, take all of me, as I accept all of me and welcome all of you”…

When was the last time you really surrendered to sex? To your own body? To fully accept yourself for who you are and share that moment with another?

When was the last time you were there for them and not for your own quick-fix, peak experience? Nothing wrong with quick, hard physical release-based sex, but if that is all we are having are we missing something? Are we running this human experience in a limited range of expression?

Many of the fears you carry and false perceptions of self are based on what you have co-created, what has been done to you (the power you have lost or given away) and what you have done to others in your sexual life.

Your sexual history affects all of who you are. Your body feels this and acts from this place. You’ll avoid this because it is too painful, and you judge it because you think it is your fault and that you are bad.

Stop judging, start feeling and allow yourself to forgive. Now, your sex doesn’t become a vehicle to forget, but rather a place where you can explore, expand and feel safe.

I hear that you have perhaps violated others and you have been violated. Holding onto this and trying to forget it by running from it through suppression or promiscuity is only reinforcing this sense of unworthiness. You are worthy!

Understand that you are here to release what no longer serves you and to embrace all of you. At the moment, you are bringing portions of yourself to your sex. The sex is fragmented and fractured because you don’t feel whole, nor do you believe in your wholeness.

Sexuality is a frequency that represents all of you. Your identity has been forged through the crucible of the totality of all of your experiences. Denying this denies your eternal right to cosmic ecstasy. Own all of you, to experience all of you through yourself and the others.

Feel me???

One is glad to be of service.