Sexuality Is a Frequency That Represents YOU

Most sex is just unconscious, mutual masturbation trying to relieve our pain and shame. Conscious sexuality is about the merging of ALL that we are and saying “here I am, take all of me, as I accept all of me and welcome all of you”…

When was the last time you really surrendered to sex? To your own body? To fully accept yourself for who you are and share that moment with another?

When was the last time you were there for them and not for your own quick-fix, peak experience? Nothing wrong with quick, hard physical release-based sex, but if that is all we are having are we missing something? Are we running this human experience in a limited range of expression?

Many of the fears you carry and false perceptions of self are based on what you have co-created, what has been done to you (the power you have lost or given away) and what you have done to others in your sexual life.

Your sexual history affects all of who you are. Your body feels this and acts from this place. You’ll avoid this because it is too painful, and you judge it because you think it is your fault and that you are bad.

Stop judging, start feeling and allow yourself to forgive. Now, your sex doesn’t become a vehicle to forget, but rather a place where you can explore, expand and feel safe.

I hear that you have perhaps violated others and you have been violated. Holding onto this and trying to forget it by running from it through suppression or promiscuity is only reinforcing this sense of unworthiness. You are worthy!

Understand that you are here to release what no longer serves you and to embrace all of you. At the moment, you are bringing portions of yourself to your sex. The sex is fragmented and fractured because you don’t feel whole, nor do you believe in your wholeness.

Sexuality is a frequency that represents all of you. Your identity has been forged through the crucible of the totality of all of your experiences. Denying this denies your eternal right to cosmic ecstasy. Own all of you, to experience all of you through yourself and the others.

Feel me???

One is glad to be of service.

Relational Alchemist, Speaker & Author


Relational Alchemist, Speaker & Author



The Dynamics of Relationship

It is often rare to create a relationship that is truly free. Freedom defined as our willingness to be present to all that unravels within the relationship, whilst also been not attached to the fruits of our efforts.

This does not mean that we are careless in the relationship, it actually means we care at such a depth that we have merged the selfish with the selfless. We are grounded in our expression and our energetic imprint allows those in our lives to feel that they have wings.

Men, RISE Beside Our Women

We speak to gender, but is it really about gender? Is it really men vs. women? At what point will assume responsibility for the past and begin to step in to our potentiality and power? We have a choice… Awaken, or continue to slumber in ignorance.

Masculine Sexual Health

If we do not choose to connect deeply to those we share our sexual energy with, then who are we, why are we and what are we to ourselves? There is nothing ‘wrong’ with hedonistic urges and practices. This is a beautiful place to be and is necessary for us as men to explore in order to initially define ourselves, our needs, values and postures…

Transcending Into The Ethereal in Sacred Union

Intimate sexual union is more about harmonizing the energetic poles between two beings than it is about reaching a particular “state”. The greatest “mistake” we make though is thinking that harmonization is a dulling down of our polarities or expression in order to be in some type of mundane state or balance… Quite the contrary.

10 Things You Shouldn’t Hide From Your Partner

If you are grounded in higher self-worth within yourself, couldn’t you just be you? If you believed in what you offered and were confident and less attached to the outcome of how someone or something must be, why would you hide?


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