by Jill | Aug 10, 2021 | Consciousness, Musings, Psychology
Feeling “Safe Enough” Feeling “safe enough” to be fully expressed in the presence of another is a form of intimacy that is deeply underrated and undervalued in our society. We live in a world where intimacy is almost exclusively associated with sex and sexual...
by Jill | May 5, 2021 | Femininity, Masculinity, Musings, Psychology, Relationships
The Wounded Inner Child’s Journey As a Relational Alchemist, I am about creating long-term, connected, evolved and compatible relationships where two people may flourish in service to each other and the world. Having a healthy relationship allows us to...
by Jill | Mar 24, 2021 | Femininity, Masculinity, Musings, Psychology, Relationships
The Deal With “Feminine” Men A hyper-feminized man has often received projection from a parent enmeshing with them and “needing” unconscious intimacy from their children, as they are not receiving it from their partners. This has caused the man to shut...
by Jill | Feb 12, 2021 | Femininity, Masculinity, Musings, Psychology, Relationships
10 Things You Shouldn’t Hide From Your Partner Your shame Your shadows Your sexual desires Your dreams Your love Your fears Your passwords Your past Your boundaries Your truth Do you agree with the above? What would you add to this list? What has been your...
by Jill | Feb 11, 2021 | Musings, Psychology
Healing The “Father Wound” Seek your own approval and validation Show up how you want to be treated Feel the unfelt feelings of the past Practice emoting Be available to your own needs and to others Write a letter to your father then burn it Practice affection with...
by Jill | Jan 21, 2021 | Musings, Psychology
Bullies Are Tortured Souls Bullies are tortured souls. Fractured and fragmented by their own sense of not belonging, feeling rejected, and being isolated themselves. They turn to outward blame and assault to feel better and feel relief from their powerlessness. It...
