by Jill | Mar 4, 2022 | Consciousness, Femininity, Masculinity, Musings, Psychology
Relationship Green Flags Practices self-care & hygiene Introspective & thoughtful Has healthy boundaries Self-sufficient Demonstrates gratitude with ease Consistent in their word Has rich meaningful and open friendships Financially adept Healthy in the...
by Jill | Mar 1, 2022 | Consciousness, Femininity, Masculinity, Musings, Psychology
Don’t Leave Out Mystery in Relationship Men, don’t give up the power of mystery in dating and intimacy. Know that there is a vast difference between hiding, lying and manipulation, and genuine intrigue. In attraction dynamics knowing too much can kill polarity...
by Jill | Feb 25, 2022 | Consciousness, Musings, Psychology
Is Your Intensity Coming From Insecurity? Is your resistance coming from resentment? Are you chasing him or her because you think ‘they are the one’ and you can’t do any better? Are you giving ALL of yourself to another and minimizing your needs? Are you placing...
by Jill | Feb 23, 2022 | Consciousness, Musings, Psychology
Overcoming Regret Stop living vicariously through others Ask what you learned from inaction Get to the core of the pain, beyond what appears to be “obvious” Is there another version of the past that you can experience now? Identify the emotional attachment Assume...
by Jill | Feb 21, 2022 | Consciousness, Musings, Psychology
Masculine Sexual Complexity I spent many years not having a very healthy relationship to sexuality – the act itself, my sexual projections and my sexual essence. I used sex as a means to validate my worthiness and how I viewed myself. The truth is I manipulated...
by Jill | Aug 10, 2021 | Consciousness, Musings, Psychology
Feeling “Safe Enough” Feeling “safe enough” to be fully expressed in the presence of another is a form of intimacy that is deeply underrated and undervalued in our society. We live in a world where intimacy is almost exclusively associated with sex and sexual...