Choose Wisely Whom You Share Yourself With

You are your greatest strength.

You are your greatest power.

You are insight.

You are your greatest love

You are your greatest force.

You are your greatest wellspring of wisdom.

You are your deepest inspiration.

You are your greatest source of truth.

You are self-reliant.

You are capable and able beyond imagination.

You are your closest council.

You are all you need to be.

Sometimes we go TOO FAR outside of ourselves to define who we are. We are greater than we often think…

Whom we spend our time with influences whom we become. Whom we allow ourselves to be with impacts the quality of our path.

You know you better than anyone else does. Be discerning whom you give the most sacred parts of yourself to.

Do not be fearful of loss. You needn’t come from a place of scarcity. You are abundant in your presence. Direct that to where you wish it to go…

One is glad to be of service.

STEFANOS SIFANDOS

Relational Alchemist, Speaker & Author

STEFANOS SIFANDOS

Relational Alchemist, Speaker & Author

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