by Jill | Feb 12, 2021 | Femininity, Masculinity, Musings, Psychology, Relationships
10 Things You Shouldn’t Hide From Your Partner Your shame Your shadows Your sexual desires Your dreams Your love Your fears Your passwords Your past Your boundaries Your truth Do you agree with the above? What would you add to this list? What has been your...
by Jill | Dec 26, 2020 | Femininity, Masculinity, Musings, Psychology
Universal Sexual Forces Masculinity and femininity are not reserved solely for gender. They refer to universal sexual forces. Polarity within that either attracts or repels… And just because wild magnetic attraction exists doesn’t mean you should be romantically...
by Jill | Dec 14, 2020 | Masculinity, Musings, Psychology
Excuses Are Not Masculine When we make excuses we negate responsibility and therefore defuse our power. This is unattractive and makes us as men untrustworthy. Recently having facilitated hundreds of men through deep transformational and explorative work I realized...
by Jill | Dec 5, 2020 | Masculinity, Musings, Psychology, Relationships
Our Need For Approval Your need for approval stems from your fear of rejection. Unconsciously seeking the need to be liked or loved by another and experiencing that approval means that you are not in a state of unworthiness, humiliation, “less than” or abandonment and...
by Jill | Nov 12, 2020 | Masculinity, Musings, Psychology, Relationships
Secrets Are The Calluses Of The Heart Secrets are like calluses upon our hearts. The more we keep, the more hardened we become… I spent so many years hiding. Not trusting myself, doubting who I was, being so frustrated with the world and what I perceived to be a...
by Jill | Nov 3, 2020 | Masculinity, Musings, Psychology, Relationships
Are You Vulnerable Enough? The vulnerability and “owning my shadow” card can be fickle. We pretend to be vulnerable and truthful by showing and owning our shadows openly or expressing one of MANY that we have. More often than not though, this is a deflection of what’s...
