Transcending Into The Ethereal in Sacred Union

Intimate sexual union is more about harmonizing the energetic poles between two beings than it is about reaching a particular “state”. The greatest “mistake” we make though is thinking that harmonization is a dulling down of our polarities or expression in order to be in some type of mundane state or balance… Quite the contrary.

Sexual exploration of self, another and/or each other (one and the same really) is heightened and amplified when each individual is in their core sexual energy (either masculine or feminine). Here, amplification unravels in order to collapse. Two become one, separate becomes whole, the distinction becomes fullness.

There is often fear around this because we feel that we are losing ourselves… We are… We are stripping back the ego layers of self in order to recognise a cosmic consciousness that exists beyond our normative sensory reckoning. We dissolve who we are in order to become who we have always been, yet cannot see.

In orgasm, there is a split moment where there is such intensity in the presence where all else is released. All forms, names and identity disappear ever so quickly, only to come back ever so quickly and there is at times a longing or even disappointment that we are “back” into our normal existence.

So, we chase that high again, that communion and union with that heightened sensation. We are chasing it, hungry for it and we think it’s an orgasm. However, it is not solely in orgasm. It is more in the intention we define for ourselves. How we know ourselves and then enact that into the world.

The deeper the deliberateness of this intention, the more powerful the transcendence of the physical into the ethereal. Harmonizing ourselves does not mean minimizing our true nature. It means allowing the facade of form to dissipate and amplify our core essence.

From here and only from here when we merge our core essence with the core essence of another like a magnet can we live beyond the constraints of our conditioning. Sexual polarity runs through all of us. It begins with discovering who we truly are and wish to be and allowing sexual union to be sacred.

One is glad to be of service.


Relational Alchemist, Speaker & Author


Relational Alchemist, Speaker & Author



Stress Is The High Achiever’s Word For Fear

Men are so afraid of fear… We don’t have a healthy relationship for fear, so we leverage semantics to make ourselves feel better. What is mental and emotional stress truly a byproduct of?

In today’s day and age, we are overworked, we overthink, we place rigid expectations on ourselves and we are constantly trying to outplay the Jones’s. Why? There are many reasons, but let’s focus on one.

The Slow Burn Of Resentment & Anger

Can we not love the fullness of who we are? The fullness of others and embrace their humanness, our humanness? This does not mean not creating reverent boundaries, but it does mean surrendering to our authentic nature…

The Deal With “Feminine” Men

A hyper-feminized man has often received projection from a parent enmeshing with them and “needing” unconscious intimacy from their children, as they are not receiving it from their partners. This has caused the man to shut down his masculine essence and presence, whilst appeasing and prioritizing others and entertaining the unhealthy aspects of his feminine due to the codependent nature of his relationship with one or both of his parents.

The Value of Man

Men, the woman in your world wants you to roar. She wants you to own your darkness, your primality, the part of your core essence society tells you to deny and suppress.

The feminine wants to know that YOU know all of YOU. That you are not afraid of your “ugly”. That you see the beautiful in your ugly and that you are prepared to own it all.

From Friends To Lovers

In my relationship, friendship has been the cornerstone of our persistence, willingness and desire to come back to loving each other from a new and whole place, not past patterns and conditioning.
Do not take your friendships for granted… In the realm of intimate relationships, friendship Lays the foundation for love to flourish. Relationships are more than just a hormonal rush, explosive sex and unicorns and rainbows. YES, they are all these things and more.

How can we truly be happy with who we are? How can we truly be happy without guilt? The insight in to this is quite simple…


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