The Pursuit Of Rawness

There is something sacred, yet tantalizingly fucking sexy about exposing ourselves in complete rawness to another living being.

To be seen for who we are, what we are, what we perceive and what we bring to the world in rawness, open vulnerability and the risk of being completely rejected is exhilarating yet epically scary.

To take, to give, to receive, feel presence, to be presence, to love, to express and to be willing. Ah, to be willing. Willing to what? Willing to show up and just be without inhibition, without fear and without shame.

That yearning to interact at a visceral level with another soul and to expose ourselves fully as we see others expose their inner sanctum is thrilling.

To ravage, relish in intimate delight, ravish in intoxicating bliss and open the heart – explode the mind and empower the body is a gift to the human condition.

To take with the deepest of permission, to receive the unknown. To be immersed in an interplay of give and take. To dance wildly to the substance that is the essence that is the true expression of deepest desires…

This is power. To be free of the need to impress and to be naked in front of another with all that we have ever been, this is true freedom.

To be liberated at this level of intensity is not only a gift but a point of evolution and an immersion in to being an ‘all the way human’. What does this mean?

It means we have dropped the facade and we are standing there free of shame, free Of guilt and free of judgment and victimizations.

What a place to be. What a revealing space to occupy… The sacred dance of the intimate, where we ascend through our sexual union… This is home…

One is glad to be of service.

STEFANOS SIFANDOS

Relational Alchemist, Speaker & Author

STEFANOS SIFANDOS

Relational Alchemist, Speaker & Author

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