To Feel

To FEEL beyond that moment, yet to be fully immersed in that moment

To SEE beyond the superficial, yet to appreciate deeply the aesthetic

To KNOW there is so much more, yet to be content with what one has

To CONNECT momentarily, yet to know it is eternal

To BE in the moment, yet to recognise its impermanence

To LOVE forever, and to feel the now

To ACCEPT life as it is, yet to believe there is more

To BELIEVE in truth, and to live beyond the lies

To SURPASS profound challenge and to stand tall through it all

To EXPERIENCE fear, yet to feel courageous

To RISK rejection in the pursuit of love

To KNOW profound loss, yet to realise there is gain

To LIVE in honesty and be surrounded by fallacy

To DELVE fully in to life and to still be hindered by shame

To EXPLORE willingly the unknown, yet still be anxious of the mystery

Life is full of conundrums, puzzles waiting to be solved, love waiting to be felt. We can experience deep pain, live through profound resolve and experience a peacefulness of mind that allows us to drift in to the still of the night.

Life can knock us down, bring us despair, destroy the fabric of what we know; yet life can allow us to relish in celebration. The celebration of love, joy, bliss, learning, growth and expansion.

We learn through diversifying our experiences. When we reject parts of life, we are rejecting life itself. When we embrace life for its wholeness and cease to reject. When we trust and embrace and when we commit to act without being compulsively attached to a perceived outcome we experience TRUE freedom and love.

You are ready… Let go and just be…

One is glad to be of service.


Relational Alchemist, Speaker & Author


Relational Alchemist, Speaker & Author



Stop Avoiding Intimacy

STOP! We spend so much time running from what we fear. What we are essentially running from is our ability to feel closeness, connection and deep intimacy.

We all yearn for it – unconsciously and consciously in different ways. Brothers need brotherhood but have fear of being judged, ridiculed and not accepted by their primary in-group. They also spend so much time distracted and in ‘doing’ energy.

How To Make Sure You Don’t Lose Your Connection In Your Relationship

Healthy, intimate and bonded connection in relationship is one of the most important contributing factors in the experiential quality and sustainability of any partnership. To have meaningful and real connection means to have a relationship that is empowering, open, communicative and authentic…

Role-mate Or Soul-mate?

A role-mate is born of desperation, survival and fear. We get together to survive, not thrive. We don’t share deep values, we are here to serve primal needs only. Our intimacy is empty and scarce. We base our relationships on convenient agreements of doing in the world. Soul-mates come together to thrive, expand their connection to self, each other and the world. They are here to grow and explore their sexuality, spirituality, contributions and more. They are clear that they are here to serve the greater good of society and themselves. Which are you???

How To Create Deeper Intimacy & Explosive Sex

There are a million one ways to create connection and depth in relationship. I could go deep in to techniques, secrets and the subtleties of behaviour and human interaction and the reality is if we don’t explore ourselves first and are willing to venture in to the unknown, it’s a fruitless task.

Something that is massively overlooked in our world today is selflessness and giving. Moving beyond the first stage of intimate relating of selfishness and a focus of “what can I get from this relationship”, in to: “what can I give to this relationship”?

Learn to say NO

…and at times YES… To really say no is one of the most challenging practices.

How often do you honor your no for the sake of your own needs and not be attached to what others may think of you or how they may react? In my life I have largely oscillated between either keeping completely quiet and withdrawing when I want to vocalize my truth or if I do express its in an extreme manner.


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