To Feel

To FEEL beyond that moment, yet to be fully immersed in that moment

To SEE beyond the superficial, yet to appreciate deeply the aesthetic

To KNOW there is so much more, yet to be content with what one has

To CONNECT momentarily, yet to know it is eternal

To BE in the moment, yet to recognise its impermanence

To LOVE forever, and to feel the now

To ACCEPT life as it is, yet to believe there is more

To BELIEVE in truth, and to live beyond the lies

To SURPASS profound challenge and to stand tall through it all

To EXPERIENCE fear, yet to feel courageous

To RISK rejection in the pursuit of love

To KNOW profound loss, yet to realise there is gain

To LIVE in honesty and be surrounded by fallacy

To DELVE fully in to life and to still be hindered by shame

To EXPLORE willingly the unknown, yet still be anxious of the mystery

Life is full of conundrums, puzzles waiting to be solved, love waiting to be felt. We can experience deep pain, live through profound resolve and experience a peacefulness of mind that allows us to drift in to the still of the night.

Life can knock us down, bring us despair, destroy the fabric of what we know; yet life can allow us to relish in celebration. The celebration of love, joy, bliss, learning, growth and expansion.

We learn through diversifying our experiences. When we reject parts of life, we are rejecting life itself. When we embrace life for its wholeness and cease to reject. When we trust and embrace and when we commit to act without being compulsively attached to a perceived outcome we experience TRUE freedom and love.

You are ready… Let go and just be…

One is glad to be of service.


Relational Alchemist, Speaker & Author


Relational Alchemist, Speaker & Author



Acknowledge Your Pain

There is no shame in acknowledging our pain.

When man hides his grief with anger we all suffer. I was excessively angry for so long. Blaming others for my repeated “misfortunes”, snapping at those I loved and hating on everything that went “wrong” in my life.

Man’s Greatest Pain

A personal story from a very visceral place…

To not live in our potential. To not be self-actualised. To not express our gifts in the world. To hold back the innate power to give, create and provide life support to our journey and to those who need it are some of our greatest pain.

Are You Struggling?

Are you living a double life? Are you committed to owning your truth? We learn from both struggles/challenge/“failure” and success/wins and the positive.
We hold in what is painful or appears to be weak. I share as much of my life as I can to inspire others to share more of themselves to and for themselves so that we cease to polarize and pretend we are not struggling.
To normalize challenge and pain and not put a facade on of “all is perfect in my world”.

The Dynamics of Relationship

It is often rare to create a relationship that is truly free. Freedom defined as our willingness to be present to all that unravels within the relationship, whilst also been not attached to the fruits of our efforts.

This does not mean that we are careless in the relationship, it actually means we care at such a depth that we have merged the selfish with the selfless. We are grounded in our expression and our energetic imprint allows those in our lives to feel that they have wings.

The Dying Art Of Masculine Sacred Ritual

The sacredness of man has become diluted by cultural clutter, rampant consumerism, unhealthy masculinity and relational disconnection. However, it...


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