The Sacred Invitation

There is something magnificent about the human gaze… Particularly that of a woman. She is able to show so much of who she is, what has been and what will be.

As men, it is an honour to witness the sacredness of the gaze. This invitation in to the soul and essence of a woman’s world liberate us from overthinking.

We cannot help but feel fully the safety of her presence. A gaze like this is safe, non-judgmental, compassionate, forgiving, open and free. Elements of expression that men require in order to transcend the old limiting and rigid ways.

This gaze is more than just a gaze, it is a way of purity. This gaze speaks to eons of evolution, to the unfolding of each experience.

How the pain redefined, the joyfully embraced and the fear transmuted. This gaze is honest, free, grounded in the now, yet speaking to all that has ever been.

This gaze is to be cherished, revered and held. It cannot be taken lightly. To be allowed in to a woman’s eyes is an invitation of authentic connection.

Men are being asked yet again to hold and demonstrate our prowess, power and ability to be genuine and present.

To observe in clarity, verticality, stability and love. To be fully compassionate and non-critical. To not fear and push back or away, but to embrace, understand and do more than accept.

The allowance of the gaze – this invitation to enter the inner domain and sphere of the feminine is one of reverence. To take this for granted is to stunt and block our own evolution (collective and individual).

What does it mean to be invited into this inner space? It means we are worthy. Yes men, we are worthy and we deserve this honour and glory.

However, we must demonstrate our worth through our actions. We must ‘do the work’. Delve deep, take responsibility, explore the unknown within, open our hearts and take action in integrity (to mention some)…

When the feminine invites it means you are ready… The feminine knows. Now own that and act fully in it… Step in to your authentic power…

One is always glad to be of service.

STEFANOS SIFANDOS

Relational Alchemist, Speaker & Author

STEFANOS SIFANDOS

Relational Alchemist, Speaker & Author

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