Stef Sifandos
Relational Alchemist, Community Builder & Changemaker

The Sacred Art Of Creative Seduction

To seduce deeply we must know & importantly feel ourselves and what we desire. So many of us attempt to love in the world but are pulled away from our sexual desires.

We are so disconnected from our needs. So shamed for who we are, what we want and what we need in this human-spiritual form.

We are emotive being, physical, mindful and spiritual. We are astounded by life yet stunted by the shackles and limitations of conditioned and often repressed societal norms.

Our sexuality is an expression of our eternal truth, wisdom and is a direct pathway to experiencing life in its fullest.

Our openly expressed healthy sexuality is a gateway to enlightenment. When we suppress our sexuality and sexual expression we are losing in life.

In my own life I have found that my greatest breakthroughs and realizations, embodiments and freedoms have come from being integrated within.

Openness and clarity, free of shame and guilt, judgement and critique have liberated me and allowed me to be expansive in my posturing.

We do not realize at times the importance of sexual connection to self and to those that matter. There is a deep intimate bonding that transpires that in that moment reveals so much about who and what we are.

But only if we lean in fully to the experience and to the expression. Only if we are present, open and surrender with heart, mind and body to our own yearnings and allow ourselves to be seen by the other.

This allowing is where liberation unfolds, expands and permeates so profoundly in to the cosmic pulse that is existence. We literally become creative houses of prowess and we stream consciousness like never before.

An open, sensual and connected sexuality is a direct pathway to experiencing God. The bonding that transpires is so deep.

When we are seen and felt and we are able to be the same and do the same for others a tremendous reciprocity transpires. It is here that we grow massively.

It is in this moment and space that we are living fully and that we are touching within the dark parts that have previously been to scary to come in to contact with.

Our sexual expression when clean and clear (with intention and reverence), is a path way to equilibrated healing that leads us to experiencing internalized revelation, peacefulness and equanimity I’m life.

The mind becomes liberated and free through the opening of the heart, mind, loins.

One is always glad to be of service.

Stef Sifandos
Relational Alchemist, Community Builder & Changemaker
Stef Sifandos
Relational Alchemist, Community Builder & Changemaker

A Man’s Worth

I once thought that my worth as a man was derived from my title, status, what I accumulated and what I DID in the world. I honestly believed that the only way to feel worthy was defined by what I had, not who I am.

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There are various expressions of our own sexuality that when we explore deeply, we realise are infinite and simultaneously magnificent. We forget that sexuality is not only a physical construct or expression but has the capacity to take us somewhere of depth and realisation…

The Authentic Art Of Courting

When courting or in the pursuit of intimate relationship we place the grandest version of ourselves forward. We present what we perceive to be the what the ‘other’ desires, needs or wants…

You Are Enough

I spent so much of my life in hiding. Hiding from my fears, my anger, my insecurities, my pain, my past. I spent my life hating on myself, filling my mind with the lies I was not enough and not worthy.

You know the dialogue… “Not smart enough, not strong enough, not popular enough, not wealthy enough, just not enough. I covered the not ‘enoughness’ with either retraction or aggression.d

The Balance In Relating

There truly is a balance when it comes to giving and receiving in relationship. There is a rapidly accelerated moment towards self-love, self-acceptance, prioritizing one’s needs and values and connecting fully to self.

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