Stef Sifandos

Relational Alchemist, Community Builder & Changemaker

The Sacred Art Of Creative Seduction

To seduce deeply we must know & importantly feel ourselves and what we desire. So many of us attempt to love in the world but are pulled away from our sexual desires.

We are so disconnected from our needs. So shamed for who we are, what we want and what we need in this human-spiritual form.

We are emotive being, physical, mindful and spiritual. We are astounded by life yet stunted by the shackles and limitations of conditioned and often repressed societal norms.

Our sexuality is an expression of our eternal truth, wisdom and is a direct pathway to experiencing life in its fullest.

Our openly expressed healthy sexuality is a gateway to enlightenment. When we suppress our sexuality and sexual expression we are losing in life.

In my own life I have found that my greatest breakthroughs and realizations, embodiments and freedoms have come from being integrated within.

Openness and clarity, free of shame and guilt, judgement and critique have liberated me and allowed me to be expansive in my posturing.

We do not realize at times the importance of sexual connection to self and to those that matter. There is a deep intimate bonding that transpires that in that moment reveals so much about who and what we are.

But only if we lean in fully to the experience and to the expression. Only if we are present, open and surrender with heart, mind and body to our own yearnings and allow ourselves to be seen by the other.

This allowing is where liberation unfolds, expands and permeates so profoundly in to the cosmic pulse that is existence. We literally become creative houses of prowess and we stream consciousness like never before.

An open, sensual and connected sexuality is a direct pathway to experiencing God. The bonding that transpires is so deep.

When we are seen and felt and we are able to be the same and do the same for others a tremendous reciprocity transpires. It is here that we grow massively.

It is in this moment and space that we are living fully and that we are touching within the dark parts that have previously been to scary to come in to contact with.

Our sexual expression when clean and clear (with intention and reverence), is a path way to equilibrated healing that leads us to experiencing internalized revelation, peacefulness and equanimity I’m life.

The mind becomes liberated and free through the opening of the heart, mind, loins.

One is always glad to be of service.

Stef Sifandos

Relational Alchemist, Community Builder & Changemaker

Stef Sifandos

Relational Alchemist, Community Builder & Changemaker

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Self-identity Versus Gender

Biological sex and gender are more fixed and defined. However, self-identity is more fluid and subjective.

This is a controversial topic in this day and age. When we look at gonadal, hormonal, genetic, genital, and chromosomal sex and gender are we not more defined?

What appears to be more flexible is the way we see ourselves, internally and psychologically identify and desire others to see us.

Sexuality – A Tool For Enlightenment

There are various expressions of our own sexuality that when we explore deeply, we realise are infinite and simultaneously magnificent. We forget that sexuality is not only a physical construct or expression but has the capacity to take us somewhere of depth and realisation…

Masculine Sexual Health

If we do not choose to connect deeply to those we share our sexual energy with, then who are we, why are we and what are we to ourselves? There is nothing ‘wrong’ with hedonistic urges and practices. This is a beautiful place to be and is necessary for us as men to explore in order to initially define ourselves, our needs, values and postures…

A New Way To Look At Anger

When we pursue what we value with tenacity, unparalleled focus and a mindset of resilience we learn more about ourselves, our capacity and our power than almost any other means of self-discovery.

Let’s redefine aggression for a moment. Let’s look at aggression as inspired relentlessness. It’s a fuel source that sources our highest expression in to the world. Now, raw aggression in times of absolute survival is a different concept.

Tapping Into Your Feminine Expression

Focus on your core essence of masculinity. Strengthen your healthy masculine expression and posture. Do this and your feminine expression will reveal itself as required when relevant.
This can be a sensitive subject… Women and men are different – culturally, biologically, hormonally. We also share so many similarities in terms of the full spectrum of the human experience. We are more the same than we are different, however, we need to celebrate both and also account for the difference.

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