Stef Sifandos
Relational Alchemist, Community Builder & Changemaker

The Sacred Art Of Creative Seduction

To seduce deeply we must know & importantly feel ourselves and what we desire. So many of us attempt to love in the world but are pulled away from our sexual desires.

We are so disconnected from our needs. So shamed for who we are, what we want and what we need in this human-spiritual form.

We are emotive being, physical, mindful and spiritual. We are astounded by life yet stunted by the shackles and limitations of conditioned and often repressed societal norms.

Our sexuality is an expression of our eternal truth, wisdom and is a direct pathway to experiencing life in its fullest.

Our openly expressed healthy sexuality is a gateway to enlightenment. When we suppress our sexuality and sexual expression we are losing in life.

In my own life I have found that my greatest breakthroughs and realizations, embodiments and freedoms have come from being integrated within.

Openness and clarity, free of shame and guilt, judgement and critique have liberated me and allowed me to be expansive in my posturing.

We do not realize at times the importance of sexual connection to self and to those that matter. There is a deep intimate bonding that transpires that in that moment reveals so much about who and what we are.

But only if we lean in fully to the experience and to the expression. Only if we are present, open and surrender with heart, mind and body to our own yearnings and allow ourselves to be seen by the other.

This allowing is where liberation unfolds, expands and permeates so profoundly in to the cosmic pulse that is existence. We literally become creative houses of prowess and we stream consciousness like never before.

An open, sensual and connected sexuality is a direct pathway to experiencing God. The bonding that transpires is so deep.

When we are seen and felt and we are able to be the same and do the same for others a tremendous reciprocity transpires. It is here that we grow massively.

It is in this moment and space that we are living fully and that we are touching within the dark parts that have previously been to scary to come in to contact with.

Our sexual expression when clean and clear (with intention and reverence), is a path way to equilibrated healing that leads us to experiencing internalized revelation, peacefulness and equanimity I’m life.

The mind becomes liberated and free through the opening of the heart, mind, loins.

One is always glad to be of service.

Stef Sifandos
Relational Alchemist, Community Builder & Changemaker
Stef Sifandos
Relational Alchemist, Community Builder & Changemaker

A Story Of Longevity & Respect

We become so fucking excited when we move in to a relationship. Our hormones go wild, any form of intelligence gets thrown out with the trash. We become primal, we go deep in to our physiology.

Of course there are times when there is a ‘soul recognition’, a ‘past-life’ connection and then it becomes more spiritual. As this phenomenological experience is rising, for many this form of deepened awareness in intimate relationship eludes us.

Healing The “Father Wound”

My relationship with my father from the beginning was challenging. I look back at my life and I see almost everything I did, how I did it, how I felt about myself, and how I gave and received the love that came from a place of seeking his approval and validation.

A Fierce Kind Of Love

We cannot expect others to fill our voids. If we are not connected to who we ultimately (in an ever-evolving way) are we are ‘losing’. Love with ‘others’ may only flourish when we at least recognise the love within ourselves, when we realise we are our own source of brilliance, power, flowing love and divinity.

Doing The Inner Work

Firstly, this isn’t a gender thing. It’s a people thing. We are often really scared of change.
This is often a tough one in relationships. We want people to change with us, to do what we do, try what we try, feel what we feel and share similar interests.
At a primal level, it is our nervous system feeling safe in the presence of familiarity. Additionally, when we share similar paths, values and interests we are all part of the “in-group”. In social psychology, this is crucial to one’s feeling of being safe and surviving.

The Authentic Art Of Courting

When courting or in the pursuit of intimate relationship we place the grandest version of ourselves forward. We present what we perceive to be the what the ‘other’ desires, needs or wants…

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