Calling in your king or queen requires effort, work, self-love and often massive adjustment. An overhaul of the way in which you view societal norms, followed by integration within oneself, then expressed outwardly towards and with your beloved.

This means letting the past go, allowing the dogma of gender norms and cultural biases to evaporate into the chaos that is life. Now more than ever kings need queens. Queens need kings. Not because of some co-dependent need.

No, more than this. Because now is the time for awakened relationships to heal the planet. To lead the way and inspire a new form of leadership that values the sacredness of union. A path that allows our children to grow in unification, not isolation.

When we clear our past, express multiple meaningful sorry’s. Forgive our perpetrators — so that we break the vicious cycle of victim-perpetrator-saviour; when we cease to blame, shame and validate and we choose love, we expand.

We cannot contract and feel scarcity if we are expanding. This form and expression of intimate union, does not just present itself in romantic intimacy. It is said that platonic intimacy is the peak of human relating for it demands less, with less attachment than romantic intimacy.

Yes… AND… Sexual, romantic intimacy if done “right” has the ability to transcend limitation, hatred, judgement, attachment and disconnection. Yes, it will challenge us AND no kingdom or queendom ever ruled was done with ease.

No one wants to feel isolated. The greatest love you can experience is that love with the realized Self (that Godly divine love). Feeling this profoundly and extending it and mirroring to our beloved allows us to feel ourselves in a new way.

One is glad to be of service.

STEFANOS SIFANDOS

Relational Alchemist, Speaker & Author