Symbiotic Mirroring In The Beloved

When we move towards being open enough to love we begin to experience relationship in the most profound of ways.

We define sacred union as a cosmic bond that allows us to merge in to each other in such a way that in the other we see ourselves.

The only way to experience this deep intimacy is through a willingness to be profoundly open to feeling the ultimate form of Union. Ultimately this is the merging of self with self in all its magnificence and splendour.

Only then may we merge with another, may we ‘see’, feel and know ourselves through and with the other. In this space, in this void, in this emptiness there is a sensual and spiritual fullness felt beyond comprehension.

By feeling whole within we are opening our hearts to cosmic consciousness and requesting ever so kindly we transfigure ourselves through the beloved.

Expansion of self becomes eminent and in doing so we transfigure the beloved in to the divine – we are re-remembering and granting a gift of awakening to the beloved and of course ourselves (one-in-the-same).

Through expansion we connect. In this connection we cease to separate, we cease to segregate, we cease to punish difference, we cease to fear and we cease to distinguish between you and I.

There is only us – a unified consciousness is felt, embodied and realized. Our yearning to intertwine with another comes not from desperation but from inspiration being realized through devotion to the fullness of one’s authentic ‘nature’.

How may we come together to BE the most profound versions of self? In union with self we may begin to devote our immense value to another. We are beautifully relational beings. To transcend and ignore this truth is to negate an integral aspect of our evolution.

Our beloved is us and we are our beloved. Recognizing this allows us to be beautifully inclusive in our posturing, in our interactions, in our holding, in our loving and in our infinite merging.

To hold our beloved with grace, reverence and whole truth is not only a gift to the beloved but a gift to the evolution and growth of self. If we are they and they are us, then growth becomes connected, undeniable and magically limitless.

When we embrace and embody our wholeness, we learn to love not only that which we are ‘within’ ourselves but we love prolifically all that we observe, feel and merge in to our beloved – we begin to ‘them’ unconditionally.

As above, so below – something is everything and nothing is something. We exist eternally in a unified point of source consciousness. When gazing deeply in to the soul of your beloved transfigure intently their being so that it may dance wildly, freely and familiarly in the cosmic ocean of primordial energy.

It is here you – they – us – we may discover ultimate bliss through the remembering of what love truly is.


One is always glad to be of service.


Relational Alchemist, Speaker & Author


Relational Alchemist, Speaker & Author



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We learn at a young age to wear masks to protect ourselves and be part of the “in” or popular group. We seek validation, approval and acceptance of those we deify, love and respect (aka our parents, peers and society).
We can’t maintain this. We seek to be accepted in all the wrong ways. Masculine and feminine energies exist in all of us. They are simply contrasted energetic expressions of our thoughts, beliefs and reality.

The Self-Revering Man

The man who respects, trusts and reveres himself is the man who stands in vertical awe of his own being.
This is not arrogance but rather ‘aware confidence’ and a deepened connection to self that supersedes doubt, fear and confusion.

Love Is Conditional

There it is. I said what basically we all do. We all place conditions on the way we care for others, okay, well the VAST majority of us do. I know I have & so what, where to from here? Are standards, ideals, values & conditions bad?

If your partner is physically or emotionally abusing you consistently should you remain in that situation with no indication of change because you wish to have ‘unconditional love’?

Honouring Those We Love

A heartfelt tribute to our connected humanity… Please feel… How do we honour those we feel deeply for, those we are bonded to? We revere them for exactly what they are, how they show up and how they present themselves. How do we allow others to be who they are..?

Home in Retrospect

It has been really difficult being back here “home”… What is home? It has changed for me so much. The last few years have been turbulent, revealing, painful, healing and empowering. Being back in this place has disorientated me in many ways.
Yes, it has been nurturing to my soul, my dear friends, blessed life long connections, family and loved ones, yet I feel displaced. Have you ever been somewhere that felt so familiar, yet you feel you didn’t belong anymore? I am here.

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