by Jill | Aug 19, 2020 | Musings, Psychology
Why Others May Be “Mean” To You Unresolved childhood pain Pent up repressed anger Narcissistic tendencies Feeling too much pressure Unconscious fear Feeling out of control Not accepting reality as it is They are constantly feeling threatened They dislike...
by Jill | Aug 14, 2020 | Musings, Psychology
Healing Your Inner Child Speak to him/her daily in kindness Write a letter to them telling them they are seen and loved Ask them what they need on the regular Be playful in life Acknowledge the feelings that weren’t felt Express these feelings in a primal...
by Jill | Jan 5, 2020 | Musings, Psychology
Understanding Trauma Trauma is not simple. We can’t compare one’s trauma to another’s. “I wasn’t sexually abused or tortured, therefore I shouldn’t be distressed”. One’s trauma is not “worse” than someone else’s. And it’s difficult as we place a hierarchy on certain...
by Jill | Jan 4, 2020 | Masculinity, Musings, Psychology
The Inner Wounded Child See that little child in your lover. There is a little one inside each of us. We become confused because when we are hurt by the actions of adults. We see adults who “should know better”. We witness mature, developed adults taking actions that...
