To Ravage and Ravish

See beyond man and woman for a moment.

You want to ravage and ravish the feminine in your life… Then be safety, be heart-centered presence, be consistent, be that container you are meant to be.

For the feminine to open herself up, to flower to you, to show herself fully the masculine must meet her where she is. The masculine must learn to lead that dance.

For the feminine to step fully in to softness and surrender the masculine must be vertical in action, postured, confident and hold depth in breath. Can you look deeply in the feminine, gaze with stable intensity and emote with prowess?

The feminine AND the masculine wants to be feel, the feminine wants to be felt and yearns to feel you. If the masculine is murky, clarity eludes us. Confusion breeds isolation, nervousness and mistrust. Are we both prepared to do the work in order to see each other?

We ask the masculine to BE presence… This means to choose to feel it all, the goodness, the shadow, the ugly, the all. Whatever arises in the now. This demonstrates true strength – to be with what arises in the MOMENT devoid of judgment and laden with layered meaning.

Just being with what comes, owning it and still being there. The feminine yearns for this kind of feeling presence – unwavering truth penetrating the essence of the unified feminine.

The feminine does not welcome fracture. She resides in wholeness. The masculine expression of wholeness is cosmic expansion. A realization that all may be welcomed in to one’s awareness without the need to interpret and judge. The feminine welcomes this with compassion.

As the masculine can you experience anger, joy, excitement, fear and more and still hold the container of stability for yourself, where you feel from heart resonance and you act from stillness in mind…?

It’s a dance of the polarity. Meet your pole in complimentary opposite and your interaction will spark divinity.

One is glad to be of service.

STEFANOS SIFANDOS

Relational Alchemist, Speaker & Author

STEFANOS SIFANDOS

Relational Alchemist, Speaker & Author

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