by Jill | Nov 3, 2020 | Masculinity, Musings, Psychology, Relationships
Are You Vulnerable Enough? The vulnerability and “owning my shadow” card can be fickle. We pretend to be vulnerable and truthful by showing and owning our shadows openly or expressing one of MANY that we have. More often than not though, this is a deflection of what’s...
by Jill | Oct 19, 2020 | Masculinity, Musings, Psychology, Relationships
The Unavailable Man The unavailable man is not only unavailable to you, but he is also unavailable to himself… Unavailability can be super evident or it can hide in the shadows. Your partner (mirror and extension of usually the father figure or archetype) will keep...
by Jill | Oct 29, 2019 | Musings
Keeping It Real For us to love each other we must respect each other’s anger. Fierceness is an expression of inner strength; violence is an expression of frustrated, unconscious impotence. To disagree when in Union is natural. We think disagreement is bad! What...
by Jill | Sep 16, 2019 | Musings, Psychology, Relationships
How Repressed Trauma Is Expressed 1. Substance addiction 2. Excessive pornography 3. Projections upon others 4. Massive insecurities 5. Jealousy 6. Controlling behaviour 7. Domestic violence 8. Self-sabotage 9. Guilt and shame 10. Shadow behavior 11. Cheating...
by Jill | Aug 19, 2019 | Masculinity, Psychology
The Place of the Heart We are here. The place of the heart. The place where so many of us have believed for so long that the opening of the heart has no place in the realm of man. I, amongst many are here to tell you otherwise. That the heart has everything to do with...
