by Jill | Dec 14, 2020 | Masculinity, Musings, Psychology
Excuses Are Not Masculine When we make excuses we negate responsibility and therefore defuse our power. This is unattractive and makes us as men untrustworthy. Recently having facilitated hundreds of men through deep transformational and explorative work I realized...
by Jill | Dec 5, 2020 | Masculinity, Musings, Psychology, Relationships
Our Need For Approval Your need for approval stems from your fear of rejection. Unconsciously seeking the need to be liked or loved by another and experiencing that approval means that you are not in a state of unworthiness, humiliation, “less than” or abandonment and...
by Jill | Sep 2, 2020 | Consciousness, Masculinity, Musings, Psychology
Deep Honouring In Relationship – A Masculine Perspective Generally, men are seen or considered stable, vertical, and never-changing (reliable and strong). The masculine, consciousness or conscious energy is this – but it also transitions through life as it (that...
by Jill | Aug 28, 2020 | Consciousness, Masculinity, Musings, Psychology
How I Stopped Playing The Victim Assumed ownership of my actions Stopped gossiping and whining Stopped making excuses Stopped seeking attention and validation Realized I didn’t have to be my parents Forgave others Stopped comparing Believed in my...
by Jill | Jul 18, 2020 | Consciousness, Femininity, Masculinity, Musings, Psychology, Relationships
The Masculine Within What happens when the masculine within leaves? All the times we’ve neglected ourselves didn’t trust, obsessed with excessive and external validation and approval and couldn’t contain our power, we lost our ability to love ourselves as we were. We...
