by Jill | Feb 25, 2022 | Consciousness, Musings, Psychology
Is Your Intensity Coming From Insecurity? Is your resistance coming from resentment? Are you chasing him or her because you think ‘they are the one’ and you can’t do any better? Are you giving ALL of yourself to another and minimizing your needs? Are you placing...
by Jill | Feb 23, 2022 | Consciousness, Musings, Psychology
Overcoming Regret Stop living vicariously through others Ask what you learned from inaction Get to the core of the pain, beyond what appears to be “obvious” Is there another version of the past that you can experience now? Identify the emotional attachment Assume...
by Jill | Nov 3, 2020 | Masculinity, Musings, Psychology, Relationships
Are You Vulnerable Enough? The vulnerability and “owning my shadow” card can be fickle. We pretend to be vulnerable and truthful by showing and owning our shadows openly or expressing one of MANY that we have. More often than not though, this is a deflection of what’s...
by Jill | Jun 20, 2020 | Masculinity, Psychology
Shadow Alert I have a confession. It’s very real for me and has been for some time. This morning I realized the potency of my being and my behaviour… For many years, intensified violence and aggression were my go-to. I carried internal rage and suppressed trauma...