by Jill | Sep 28, 2020 | Consciousness, Musings, Psychology, Relationships
Experiencing The Father Wound As An Adult You may be controlling, oppressive, subjugating and aggressive Are hyper-competitive Have no healthy male friendships and bonds No mastery of your sexuality Excessively seek validation through accomplishments and status You...
by Jill | Sep 23, 2020 | Consciousness, Musings, Psychology
Where Is The Love? The world feels sad. I’ve been away in the mountains away from the world a couple of months ago, journeying deeper into self in solitude and on a vision quest (more on this later). The world has changed, or have I? The world seems distant and scared...
by Jill | Jun 20, 2020 | Masculinity, Psychology
Shadow Alert I have a confession. It’s very real for me and has been for some time. This morning I realized the potency of my being and my behaviour… For many years, intensified violence and aggression were my go-to. I carried internal rage and suppressed trauma...
by Jill | Apr 28, 2020 | Masculinity, Musings, Psychology
Suicide Is Never An Option It wasn’t that long ago where I was fighting suicide. Loss of my businesses, relationship, status, honor, friendships and identity had me feeling worthless, deep shame and isolation. I felt “not enough” and that I was being a burden to those...
by Jill | Oct 9, 2019 | Masculinity, Psychology
Acknowledge Your Pain There is no shame in acknowledging our pain. When man hides his grief with anger we all suffer. I was excessively angry for so long. Blaming others for my repeated “misfortunes”, snapping at those I loved and hating on everything that went...