by Jill | May 5, 2021 | Femininity, Masculinity, Musings, Psychology, Relationships
The Wounded Inner Child’s Journey As a Relational Alchemist, I am about creating long-term, connected, evolved and compatible relationships where two people may flourish in service to each other and the world. Having a healthy relationship allows us to...
by Jill | Mar 24, 2021 | Femininity, Masculinity, Musings, Psychology, Relationships
The Deal With “Feminine” Men A hyper-feminized man has often received projection from a parent enmeshing with them and “needing” unconscious intimacy from their children, as they are not receiving it from their partners. This has caused the man to shut...
by Jill | Feb 11, 2021 | Musings, Psychology
Healing The “Father Wound” Seek your own approval and validation Show up how you want to be treated Feel the unfelt feelings of the past Practice emoting Be available to your own needs and to others Write a letter to your father then burn it Practice affection with...
by Jill | Dec 14, 2020 | Masculinity, Musings, Psychology
Excuses Are Not Masculine When we make excuses we negate responsibility and therefore defuse our power. This is unattractive and makes us as men untrustworthy. Recently having facilitated hundreds of men through deep transformational and explorative work I realized...
by Jill | Dec 5, 2020 | Masculinity, Musings, Psychology, Relationships
Our Need For Approval Your need for approval stems from your fear of rejection. Unconsciously seeking the need to be liked or loved by another and experiencing that approval means that you are not in a state of unworthiness, humiliation, “less than” or abandonment and...
