by Jill | Feb 25, 2022 | Consciousness, Musings, Psychology
Is Your Intensity Coming From Insecurity? Is your resistance coming from resentment? Are you chasing him or her because you think ‘they are the one’ and you can’t do any better? Are you giving ALL of yourself to another and minimizing your needs? Are you placing...
by Jill | Feb 23, 2022 | Consciousness, Musings, Psychology
Overcoming Regret Stop living vicariously through others Ask what you learned from inaction Get to the core of the pain, beyond what appears to be “obvious” Is there another version of the past that you can experience now? Identify the emotional attachment Assume...
by Jill | May 5, 2021 | Femininity, Masculinity, Musings, Psychology, Relationships
The Wounded Inner Child’s Journey As a Relational Alchemist, I am about creating long-term, connected, evolved and compatible relationships where two people may flourish in service to each other and the world. Having a healthy relationship allows us to...
by Jill | Mar 24, 2021 | Femininity, Masculinity, Musings, Psychology, Relationships
The Deal With “Feminine” Men A hyper-feminized man has often received projection from a parent enmeshing with them and “needing” unconscious intimacy from their children, as they are not receiving it from their partners. This has caused the man to shut...
by Jill | Dec 14, 2020 | Masculinity, Musings, Psychology
Excuses Are Not Masculine When we make excuses we negate responsibility and therefore defuse our power. This is unattractive and makes us as men untrustworthy. Recently having facilitated hundreds of men through deep transformational and explorative work I realized...