by Jill | Dec 5, 2020 | Masculinity, Musings, Psychology, Relationships
Our Need For Approval Your need for approval stems from your fear of rejection. Unconsciously seeking the need to be liked or loved by another and experiencing that approval means that you are not in a state of unworthiness, humiliation, “less than” or abandonment and...
by Jill | Nov 12, 2020 | Masculinity, Musings, Psychology, Relationships
Secrets Are The Calluses Of The Heart Secrets are like calluses upon our hearts. The more we keep, the more hardened we become… I spent so many years hiding. Not trusting myself, doubting who I was, being so frustrated with the world and what I perceived to be a...
by Jill | May 31, 2020 | Musings, Psychology, Relationships
The 5 Things You Can Do When You Are Being Gaslighted What do you do when you’re being gaslighted? According to Merriam-Webster, to “gaslight” is to ” to attempt to make (someone) believe that he or she is going insane (as by subjecting that...
by Jill | Oct 29, 2019 | Musings
Keeping It Real For us to love each other we must respect each other’s anger. Fierceness is an expression of inner strength; violence is an expression of frustrated, unconscious impotence. To disagree when in Union is natural. We think disagreement is bad! What...
by Stef Sifandos | Jan 2, 2019 | Musings, Psychology
I Am Still Here – WE Are Still Here In the very short time I have been present on this planet I have had (like many of us) what I call a range of diverse and deep experiences. I have been plummeted in to the depths and chasms of despair, suffering and pain, yet...