by Jill | Dec 5, 2020 | Masculinity, Musings, Psychology, Relationships
Our Need For Approval Your need for approval stems from your fear of rejection. Unconsciously seeking the need to be liked or loved by another and experiencing that approval means that you are not in a state of unworthiness, humiliation, “less than” or abandonment and...
by Jill | Nov 12, 2020 | Masculinity, Musings, Psychology, Relationships
Secrets Are The Calluses Of The Heart Secrets are like calluses upon our hearts. The more we keep, the more hardened we become… I spent so many years hiding. Not trusting myself, doubting who I was, being so frustrated with the world and what I perceived to be a...
by Jill | Nov 13, 2019 | Musings, Psychology
Childhood Neglect Your basic needs were not met You lacked guidelines and structure Your primary caregivers put you down You were never or rarely praised You grew up in scarcity You grew up in violence, fear and Volatility You were criticised and judged as a child...
by Jill | May 21, 2019 | Authenticity, Musings, Psychology
A Strong NO Means The YES Carries Greater Substance We are often so afraid of our no’s. We are afraid to be seen as perhaps going against the grain, letting others down, being seen a certain way or perhaps there is a fear of a backlash – rejection, humiliation,...
