On Death & Loneliness

There is a great mystery that permeates our consciousness and that is the mystery of the creative energy.

As a society, we have shunned what we do not understand. Have manipulated, twisted and divided what we perceive as foreign or what we fear.

Through systemic oppression, unhealthy expressions of patriarchy and marginalization we have lost connection with the essence of what provides us with endearing life.

Woman in all of her natural beauty and wonder gives life in such a profound way. We need her, yet as a collective we devalue her innate wisdom, her care, her presence and her contribution.

Honouring In Truth

We have ostracized, feared and denied her beauty, for we have not recognized it in ourselves. We no longer need to fear what ultimately gives us life, a perspective of deep love and connection and insight into our true nature – it is this that we ultimately fear, for it requires a deep surrendering and trust and this has haunted us since the beginning of our separation.

The division between the authentic and the culturally cluttered self – the ‘falsified and glorified ego’ and the true expression of our being. We have forgotten that all of what we are is oneness and wholeness, inclusive of the ego. We have dishonoured the beauty in ego, separated ourselves and have extended this behaviour to all areas of life and relationships.

The Beauty Of Woman

We at times pretend the multilayered beauty of a woman carries no value or worth and we polarize our societal behaviours to align with that of something similar to domination, ridicule and worthlessness when it comes to recognizing the power of women.

We fear what we do not understand. We fear what is authentically powerful. So we ignore, pressurize, pretend and overpower in abhorrent ways to achieve dominance and perceived superiority.

The current (and previous) imbalanced, and ‘in power’ men of this world, cultural constructs, externalized, normative values and dominant sub-cultural expressions have continued to marginalize the beauty of women.

The Consciousness Of Man

As conscious beings, as men (in particular) that have autonomy, power, free thought and an open heart it is time we brought back equilibrium to this planet.

It is the time, space and intention to now value what requires recognition, reverence, support, deep admiration and love – and that is woman in all of her glory.

To respect openly their hearts; to feel their Radiance; to take lead from the connected and intuitive wisdom and to bring balance into a world that feels such profound disharmony through segregation and polarization of the individual and the essence.

If we can own who we have been, assume responsibility for where we are going and realise what is required for this transformation we will all grow, evolve and benefit.

Mutuality In Expression & Connection

Men, we must be open-hearted, bowing and humble in our posturing. Women, please forgive, continue your authentic expression and allow your softness to permeate deeply.

Men, be vulnerable, be stable and safe for women to BE without judgement, be empowered, giving and be equitable and in integrity in expression and action – transformation is the death of the old that no longer serves assuming and assimilating the teachings of what was deeply experienced.

Women, continue to feel, connect to earth, be compassionate and empathetic and hold a safe container for masculine expression. Trust that the conscious men in your life will have yours, the earth and their best interests at heart.

We all have a role to play. Together we are undeniably empowered. Divided we will continue to suffer, fall form our grace and distance ourselves from true love and connection.

One is always glad to be of service.

STEFANOS SIFANDOS

Relational Alchemist, Speaker & Author

STEFANOS SIFANDOS

Relational Alchemist, Speaker & Author

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