Man’s Version Of Creation

Creation resides at the epicentre of humanity. The feminine in the female embodied is the epitome of creation. She literally gives life. Of course not without the integrated essence of the masculine. However, the feminine carries, births, produces and houses life.

Man’s or the masculine drive to create therefore becomes a focus for the masculine mind and essence. We create systems, structures, buildings, innovations, technologies, we generate wealth, sociocultural momentum, economic models and so much more in the “outside” world.

Whilst this is useful and necessary for expansion as our external is a reflection of the internal; the shadow expressive reflection of this “NEED” to create is demonstrated through excessiveness, hyper-competitiveness, the compensation of “over-doing” at the expense of other values such as loving relationships, living an aligned purpose, integrity and being in the world.

In its shadow; our doing is in excess, it is obsessive and is attempting to compensate for the ultimate creation of life. When we are not at peace with the value we bring, our unconscious belief of not being enough in the world (because we think we are less than as we cannot procreate), then suppresses and oppresses the feminine and true masculine power — again, at any cost.

She is belittled and devalued. And we become autocratic, restless and never satisfied. We become power-hungry, with an insatiable appetite for more and more and more. We become rampant consumers, chained to an industrial era of corporations and the almighty dollar. Let us come back to a yearning for change.

Our sacred place must shift from the “corporate entity” to the mythical, the curious, the fertile earth, community and the cosmos. This is the domain and the empire of man. To step into this truth and be validated by his own sense of intrinsic worthiness will reinvigorate the evolving man. Man is powerful and is needed. Mans being is equally as valuable. We need to know this.

Competing and comparison with our women is not a fruitful task. It creates isolation, distance and resentment. We grow separately and despise each other’s gifts as opposed to celebrating our differences.

Our time to be different is drawing upon us. Can you be a man of cosmic curiosity? Can you balance certainty in self with the mystery that is life and bathe in the lagoon of possibility with a greater sense of peace?

One is glad to be of service.


Relational Alchemist, Speaker & Author


Relational Alchemist, Speaker & Author



Masculine Sexual Health

If we do not choose to connect deeply to those we share our sexual energy with, then who are we, why are we and what are we to ourselves? There is nothing ‘wrong’ with hedonistic urges and practices. This is a beautiful place to be and is necessary for us as men to explore in order to initially define ourselves, our needs, values and postures…

From Fracture We Are Reborn

We often chastise pain in the form of fracture or confusion. We wish to eliminate doubt from our being and whilst being riddled with doubt long term is not healthy, these embodied states play a crucial role in our psychological, emotional, spiritual and social development.

These ‘broken’ states that we experience have the capacity to liberate us by shining a light of wisdom and attention to what no longer serves us and is no longer working for us.

The Perpetual Taking

To take consciously is to give abundantly…

For a man to be adored by his woman means the cosmos to him. For a man to be loved, sincerely cared, seen and nurtured allows him to burst in to thriving in to the universe – amplifying his power.

For a woman to be witnessed, served and known for who she is and the gifts she bares in to this world is liberating. For a man to support and hear his woman frees her expression wildly. For a man to be non-judgmental is opening for his woman.

Love Is Conditional

There it is. I said what basically we all do. We all place conditions on the way we care for others, okay, well the VAST majority of us do. I know I have & so what, where to from here? Are standards, ideals, values & conditions bad?

If your partner is physically or emotionally abusing you consistently should you remain in that situation with no indication of change because you wish to have ‘unconditional love’?

To Honour Is To Create Together

“When I truly honoured myself, I was able to honour women”…

In this life I have been blessed to transform many times over. There have been times where I have delved deep in to my own self solo and in isolation. There have been times when I have been deeply supported by other brothers. And there have been times where I have been guided by the divine presence of the feminine.

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