From Fracture We Are Reborn

We often chastise pain in the form of fracture or confusion. We wish to eliminate doubt from our being and whilst being riddled with doubt long term is not healthy, these embodied states play a crucial role in our psychological, emotional, spiritual and social development.

These ‘broken’ states that we experience have the capacity to liberate us by shining a light of wisdom and attention to what no longer serves us and is no longer working for us.

This becomes beautifully empowering and allows us to take manifest action in the areas of life that require evolution.

We feel pain in order to grow. We feel joy in order to grow. We feel in order to be and we feel in order to transcend. Feeling is natural and powerful.

Feeling the fullness of life allows us to gain clarity and move with greater ease in our relationships.

Internal fracture indicates that there are areas of our lives that require up-leveling and the only way to up-level is to move through.

This dissipation of self is an indication not that we are broken but that we require adjustment. What once served us well, perhaps does not anymore.

What this means is that we have an opportunity to create new patterns that are healthy and aligned with our purpose, presence and values.

The more we move away from the essence of our core the more we prolong the dissonance of self. When we attend to disparate self, we are speaking loudly to our worth and that we value ourselves.

We are worthy enough to adjust our life’s path and course and sail towards a place of forgiveness, worthiness, alignment and congruency. .

I unpack this and more in my upcoming men’s journey. Teaching men how to step in to their authentic selves.

One is glad to be of service.


Relational Alchemist, Speaker & Author


Relational Alchemist, Speaker & Author



Deep Truth – The Power Of Masculine Realisation

We must understand that the masculine and the feminine reside within both males and females and apply to both males and females for each other and for themselves. It is through allegory and story that we learn deeply and profoundly…

Expressive Connection

We yearn, we wish, we feel, we ‘know’, we dream, we envision, we care, we want, we desire, we need – yet we refrain. We hold back, we retract, we restrict, we constrict and we live in and from unconscious and patterned fears. Why?

The Unhealthy Fearful Feminine

ourage has been forged from blooms of fear and action. Fear can breed depth of being if we allow it. When we are scared, we either retract and wither or we expand and go in to the mystery of the night and explore the unknown territories of the cosmos with glee and prowess.

FEAR IS NATURAL – FEARS ARE NOT “BAD”! These fears related to the feminine DO NOT only exist in women, they exist in men also! Masculine / feminine energies exist in all people!

Step Into The Light

I spent most of my life living in the dark. Either pretending I had no shadow or only wanting to focus on my “good side”. And even now, when feeling extreme pressure or convenient I revert to that place. Whether it is a new year, decade, month or day. I am making a choice right here and right now. That choice is to stop polarizing and start embracing all of me, not just the convenient parts.
There is light and dark in all of us. We live in contrast. We like to avoid what is perceived as ugly, “not good” or bad. We are shamed in to only presenting the best of us. This is unrealistic and unattainable.

Take Her To God

Remind her that SHE IS a Goddess. Take her to places she never has gone before. Welcome the full expression of her being to permeate the space in which she occupies. Your permission is the congruency and integrity of your presence. You don’t ask for permission, you are permission by your endearing actions and the wisdom that is you.

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