Being Seen Clearly

When we simply bask in the authentic radiant expression of another and sit still in allowance and free of judgment – the magic of synchronistic unified expression is unleashed.

With the stillness of this action comes great power – for the observing, the observer and the observed. As men, when we observe without wanting to change or bend we are allowing the feminine to be seen safely. She feels unhindered and therefore may show up fully.

Loving from a place of trust, surrender, truth and deeply profound reverence for what is unfolding in front of you allows the other to just be without over-complicated and excessive thought that may block the intuitive heart from expressing – one of the greatest gifts of the feminine essence.

There is almost nothing greater and of deeper truth than the unfolding of unbridled and unadulterated magnificence in front of you and to not judge, critique or be attached to ‘should’s’.

Just being with what is and assimilating the real and present value of what is being given is a gift of the divine feminine to the cosmic masculine. She may only give her soul and body in this way when man is consistent in his presence and safe in his demeanor.

Men allow your woman to be her most beautiful, expressive and vulnerable self. Beautiful women, allow your men to fall, pick up, protect, guide and be in stillness. Trust that they will return to stable. This ‘allowing’ frees us from attachment to pain and extreme expressions of an individuated self.

We become unified and whole as we dance to each other’s core essences. We are them able to allow ourselves to be seen – not from desperation and insecurity but rather openness and curiosity. This becomes healing for the planet and the masculine and feminine Archetypical wounding that plagues our psyche at the unconscious levels.

One is glad to be of service.

STEFANOS SIFANDOS

Relational Alchemist, Speaker & Author

STEFANOS SIFANDOS

Relational Alchemist, Speaker & Author

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Life can be daunting, life can be overwhelming, life can appear so big! The ‘bigness’ can be f*****g scary!

We ‘think’ that we are not as good as why we are. We devalue ourselves, we minimize our power, we place ourselves lower than what we are.

How do we come in to a space of self-reverence? Where we know our power and we needn’t question our abilities when it comes to expressing our truth?

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Men (or the masculine energy) – A reminder… How do you hold your beloved? How you hold her is based upon how you revere her. The depth at which you revere her is dependent on the value you place on her intrinsic beauty, soul and heart…

Sexual Polarity

There is so much to say to this. Knowing our core essence frees us from engaging in what my beloved calls “issue-based” relationships. Think of magnets. Magnets come together when the opposite charge is experienced/felt. Then there is a merging or union.

The Approval Of The Father

Ah that fleeting moment when Dad approves you with his warm smile… And then, gone… There is great dignity and reverence in feeling the warmth, the solidarity and the support of the sacred father or grandfather energy. I recall often as a child yearning for the approval and the support of my father. Dearly wanting his wisdom imparted, the gentleness of his hand to guide me through life as I at times felt like I was catapulting through the cosmos.

The Richness Of Union

There is a richness that accompanies commitment. When we commit to the intertwining of all the expressions of self, we grow in to a more encompassed and complete version of who we have always been.

The intertwining of our sexual sacredness may only transpire if we are open to receiving and giving in equanimity. Our sexual energy may only flow when we are free of shame and when we have chosen to commit without inhibition. To be SEEN for all that we are.